Confused and......WOW

So two of my exes have talked ot me in the past two days. One kinda still likes me and the other one hates me and everything involved with me. I figure I should just give up on men at this point. They are all very selfish. Ugh......Well anyways if anyone has any idea as to how I can get my exes to be friends with me, or just comepletely leave me alone please tell me.